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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
anyone else
Aqua, I think that you know the answer to your question and are just afraid to follow through.
You know you're not being treated well and that you're only staying with this man because he's the father of your unborn child. You're not even ambivalent about your feelings for him.
That makes me think that you're afraid of society's judgement if you're seen as a single mother...trust me, society can be harsh! they won't care if you're suicidal in a marriage or relationship as long as you have a ring on your finger. It's all based on pretense...
But it's your life and the father's life too. Are you going to remain in a relationship that treats you badly and therefore provide an unhealthy environment for your child just to please other people's standards of what is good and right for you? or are you going to bravely accept that you had loved this person/he had loved you; it is over or under stress... but you can both have that child without being shackled to one another? If he can be there for you and your child emotionally and financially without a relationship, then most likely it'll be a turn for the better...It won't be easy but you'll be true to yourself and most importantly you won't have those resentment festering between you too...Do you want to spend the next 18 years of your life with an ennemy in your home?
I think that is what is being read in this chart here by Hera (I don't read Horary charts).
I'm not telling you to go one way or another. But you know how things are with him now, what you don't know is the future.